Thursday, 9 February 2023

Carsington and Hopton




A-walking and a-snowdropping

8th February 2023

As we get older, we feel more rebellious.  Agreeing to meet at the Sheepwash car park, doesn't mean that we actually need to park there. But we found each other and only one of us paid for the privilege. As it was a little bit chilly with the sun not yet pushing through enough, we decided on a brisk walk. So brisk in fact, that having stopped to take a photo, it was quite hard to catch up.



Wait for me!

On our way Pam saw a stranger wearing her exact same hat which she had lost on Monday.  But, despite real encouragement from Maggie to 'go get her', Pam hoped it was just a bit of coincidence, and let things be. Why does she need another hat anyway?

We arrived at the bird hut with lots of information and Pam showed off her birding identification skills, carefully matching the beak to the bird.

M'lady sorting out ma'lard

But the real test was through the window, which was slightly steamed up, and the view not helped by steamed up glasses and likewise steamed up binoculars; even outside was still a bit misty across the water.

I don't know what I am until Pam finds me beak!

Pam finds a map and tries to plot a walking route back to Wirksworth avoiding the very busy road. 

But private property blocks a logical right of way. 

Are we ready for the right to ramble anywhere?  (see book recommendation below). We look the part; have a good amount of dried mud on our boots.... or do we? Someone's boots look a bit squeaky clean but they were definitely worth buying in the half price sale. 

How far up the ankle should the cuff be?  Below or above the ankle? 

We speed back along the path, chatting away and paused to check out the birds. Whilst waiting for anything to turn up, we listen to Alison's lovely stories: the buzzard which 'played dead' on the road,  placed in a box for safety and then 'woke up'climbed out of the box and sat in the passenger seat of a car en route to the vets; and the one about the dead mole (which wasn't feigning anything) which demolished Alison's snowdrops in her one patch of loose soil in her garden.


Observed, but not photo'd, flock of tits and rampaging fat, grey squirrels. 

We chatted about state pensions.  Alison waiting for Helen, waiting for Alison, to see what to make of the new form and whether we can apply for both the New and the Old state pension (whichever pays out best, Alison).  And, yes, we are ready to apply for our bus pass and can't wait to be called a 'bus w%#nker'!

We briefly say tata to Pam and head off down the winding lanes to our next destination admiring the rectory and its statue, other vast houses without statues, sheep, hedgerows and enjoy the laughter of children playing in the school playground (that's cos we're not in charge; hehe) 

It is what it says on the sign.

Not much traffic; no pot holes!

Free to view and just as pretty as the Hopton ones. 

We purchase our admission tickets to Hopton Hall, to discover that the KitKat bars on the table were not included. But they did tell us that Pam was round the bend; our lips are sealed.  We found her basking in the sun in front of some posh cars.

Ready for soup, which was not on the menu, we all opted for a coffee and scone and settled down to our usual chat about holidays (plenty of snow for skiing, boozy cruisers rum punched-out on idyllic Caribbean beaches, adventure holidays vs relaxing ones).  Breaking the rules of watching  TV during the day being essential when binge-watching cracking good shows. . Holidays to be taken on TV locations. Happy Valley vs Line of Duty? (Alison looks bemused). Firesticks , not the BBQ ones (the rest of us are bemused). How we are quite content with our characterful wrinkly faces. 


See what I mean? 

View from our table.

We tootle off: Pam with her recorder and the rest of us around the grounds. 

In full glory

Snowdrops aren't the only flower

A waterfall of funghi

Pretty in pink hellebore

We must visit this in summer

The Thistleheads

Women of stature

Fallen angel wing


Of course, we didn't forget our lovely friends scattered mostly around the UK or on a grand tour of Europe on family or holiday business .  Proof

Cotswolding with Betty

Megalithing with Jo's family

Bob's just rocking-it!

Today's recommended book list.

The Book of Trespass by Nick Hayes (Pam)
(might need reading in conjunction with an easy reader)

A Terrible Kindness by Jo Browning Wroe (Pam)
(emotional)

Overstory by Richard Powers (Helen)
(allow plenty of time for this fascinating, beautifully written book about nine folk and trees)

Small Things Like These by Claire Keegan (Maggie and Helen)
(Elegant writing  about a coal delivery man and some nuns! Very short; we think everyone will like this) )


Today's bird list: 
Blackbird
Blue tit
Bullfinch
Canada geese
Chaffinch
Coot
Crow
Dunnock
Fieldfare
Gadwall
Great tit
Greylag goose
Jackdaw
Long tailed tit
Mallard
Moorhen
Robin
Teal
Wigeon
Wood pigeon
Wren
(21 at full speed walking, a tiny pause and misty views, not bad)




Thursday, 12 January 2023

Wintering in Whitworth Park

 

Wintering in Whitworth Park

12th January 2023

"Nature is simply pulling you to slow, like the life, flora and fauna around you.  It is not your moment to rise.  It is winter, you are wintering.  And you are right on time".

Extract from Donna Ashworth's Poems & Quotes 10th January 2023

Having seen the above trending on social media, we decided that it was a perfect quote for our intentions for the day.  First stop, the Whitworth Terrace Cafe, with a lovely table set aside by Lynn and car parking fees taken care of by a tablet.  

The first topic of conversation was, who won the 'Wild Guesses Flock of Tits Favourite Tipsy Tipple Gelly Babes Christmas Quiz of 2022'.? And, as not many had read the xmas blog or even seen the answers, despite a prompt on WhatsApp (distracted by Alison's photos), much time was spent discussing other babes' strange concoctions.  There were not enough wooden spoons to be handed to those who remembered their own choice and then boosted their score with guessing one other, but, we had a very worthy winner:

🏆

Look, the garden twine matches Helen's jumper (and Lynn's!)

🥈

And delighted runner up, shared with Maggie who was otherwise engaged.... 

....as were Janice, Charlotte and a couple of skiers. Coffee was punctuated with a catch up based on some of our favourite topics: growing old and avoiding carers (thank goodness for daughters); how 60 plus is not old enough for a gold (discount) card in Derby city, but being over 60 is for Derbyshire (humph from me, paying more for my coffee); how not having a maths 'O' level would now prevent some from being called back into teaching; the wonders of Latin and future holidays: the Cotsworlds, the Caribbean and a grand tour of Europe beckoning before February ends.  

Needing a spot of fresh air, we braced ourselves for a short, non-muddy walk.  Lynn pointed out all the lovely birds and managed the best ID of a mistle thrush by song. Thank goodness for that, as we were thwarted by a bit of bird ID technology. 


Darlings, I have a very good ear for sounds, don't you know! 

We carried on developing our January bird list and came up with a fine set of birds, a squirrel and the largest rat anyone has ever seen!  At some point we bid Julia addio; adieu; vale; despedida (thank goodness for google translate) and continued, now in a drizzly, damp sort of way...

There's a male heron in there somewhere!

Hurrying back to the cafe for a spot of lunch, we paused for a selfie with a view.  How long did it take to get the building et al all in?  Ha! And right at our feet, our first snow drops.


A bunch of hoodies!

Returning to our very own table, complete with fresh alstroemeria in the vases, we all opted for jumbo fish fingers sandwiches on brown with a bit of sauce.  Perfect for wintry weather. I can't really remember what we talked about , but there was mention of a malfunction with 'memory integrity'. Apparently its important to have it to make a computer safe, but we also thought it  important for our own brains.  We admired a baby in a pram, but we annoyed its mother, so stuck to family baby photos and a seven year old bulldog.  Plans for February and March were discussed. 

The cafe then seemed to fill with men in lycra, which we took as our cue to leave. But not before another quote of the day:
  
Helen M: Where has this wind come from?  
Helen J:  Over there! 

It was a bit blustery but we managed a few more 'adieus' and a group hug


Whilst we had a lovely day, we couldn't help but think that Alison and Pam were being a bit energetic in their idea of 'wintering'! 

Pam, running up that hill!

Beautiful, Alison!

And here is our January bird list for the day

Long tailed
Blue tit
Great tit
Robin
Blackbird
Goldcrest
Nuthatch
Mistle thrush
Chaffinch
Mallard
Coot
Moorhen
Wood pigeon
Grey heron
House sparrow
Crow
Magpie
Jackdaw 

18, not bad for a local park in the drizzle

Monday, 19 December 2022

Festive Time 2022


🍹🎄Festive time & favourite tipples with Flock of Tits🎄🍹

It's officially a tradition, but with one change of task. So, the annual Christmas card  plus each babe's chosen charity remains steadfast. The third part is a quiz based on favourite tipples to see in the New Year. The quiz is at the bottom of the blog. Can you work out who drinks what? 

Send your answers to me by 1st January 2023.  

Answers revealed later in the New Year with a prize for the winner! 

Cards and messages are in the order received. I'm sure you will agree with me that we are supporting, often with great emotion, a wide range of charities with 'humanity' at its heart of all of them. 💝

🎄Alison🎄

To all the Gelly Babes. 
Wishing you a happy Christmas and a peaceful New year. 
With love from Alison



My chosen charity is guide dogs for the blind. We have an old friend whose eyesight was never great, but it has progressively worsened over the years, to the point where he is virtually blind. We go out for lunch with him every month. 
The photograph was taken at such a meeting on Wednesday of his beautiful guide dog Odin.

🎄Helen 🎄


My donation has gone to Mind once again in memory of my beautiful boy.

🎄Maggie🎄


To all the Gellybabes, 
Wishing you a Happy Christmas and a wonderful 2023
love from Maggie x

With so many crises at home and abroad I am going to donate to the British Red Cross again this year. A recent email said that with the rising cost of living they were getting more appeals for help than ever before.

🎄Helen J🎄


I have chosen to support the Guardian Appeals again this year, which covers three charities: UK for UNHCR to provide refugee families with Winter Survival Kits. Plus, closer to home: Citizens Advice  and Locality to help support local grassroot projects from food aid to warm rooms, money advice and mental health.

 🎄Lynn🎄

Christmas love to Our Gang from Lynn 😘

One of my charities this year is Christians Against Poverty because they actively lift people from financial disaster and stand alone, and all without preaching; wonderful organisation.  My other one is RNLI because I've been able to put Les's name on a new lifeboat soon to be launched in Anstruther, Fife. 

🎄Jane🎄


Wishing all the Babes a very happy Christmas and hopes for a peaceful 2023.

My chosen charity donation is Medicins Sans Frontiere (MSF)


🎄Pam🎄


Many, many warm seasonal wishes to all my GB chums.  I always enjoy our meet ups, blogs and coffee-chats... and my birdie education.  Thank you so much for being such good friends.  Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. 



I have always admired MSF's work across the world but I found this intervention in Ukraine particularly inspiring. 

🎄Julia🎄

Happy Christmas to you all!  Looking forward to meeting up in the new year.  
Much love, Julia xx
  
This year I have made a donation to the Tressel Trust who support a nationwide network of food banks and provide emergency food and support to people locked in poverty.


🎄Charlotte🎄

Season's Greetings everyone.  Have a fun but relaxing Christmas.
Wishing you all a healthy New Year and Peace in the World.
Love Charlotte & Ian xxx



My chosen charity is, of course, Sofia & Satyam. Sofia in now in Year 11 and planning A levels (Art, History and Spanish) We are fundraising for her next study visa to enable this.
Satyam is in Year 10 and thoroughly  enjoying all aspects of school life. He is doing so well and is loved by both staff and students. He first started studying French in Year 9 and is now doing it at GCSE (predicted Grade 7!) We are fundraising for the cost of a school trip to France in October 2023 plus the special visa he needs.


🎄Jo🎄

Wishing all the Gelly babes a very jolly Christmas and a Happy New Year.  Love Jo xxx

My chosen charity is to Cancer Research in memory of my friend Ann, 
whose funeral I sadly attended last week. 

🎄Janice🎄


Merry Christmas to my fellow Gelly Babes, have a lovely Christmas & good wishes for 2023.

My chosen charity is UNHCR to support those who have had to leave their homes & have nowhere to call home this Christmas.


🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹
And here is the much anticipated Flock of Tits Festive Quiz 2022!
All you need to do is match the drink to the Gelly babe. Please send me your answers (A-K)via my WhatsApp by New Year's Day for a chance to win a prize. There will be no need to prove it over the New Year, but maybe someone will. 

Its now the first week of Jan and I've matched the tippler with the tipple. How well did you do? Winner to be announced at next meet up. 

A  Ardbeg single malt whisky - Helen J
B  Bombay sapphire (or Aldi's) G&T with ice and lemon - Helen M
C  Fettercairn single malt whisky - Pam
D  Frangelico (hazelnut liqueur) - Janice
E  Lemon Blossom cocktail * - Maggie
F  Prosecco- any brand - Julia
G  Seval blanc white wine with Veuve Clicquot champagne - Charlotte
H  Sloe gin, home-made - Jane
I  Timothy Taylor's beer - Lynn
J  White port (or a cup of tea) - Alison
K  Wodkaleys (Baileys with vodka) - Jo

*  Lemon blossom cocktail (30ml each of limoncello, elderflower cordial, vodka, lemon juice, ice) 

Cheers!
🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹









Saturday, 10 December 2022

Pre Christmas Brief Encounters

 Pre Christmas Brief Encounters at Carsington

8th December 2022


On a bright, crisp but very cold morning a select group of us gathered at Carsington Visitor Centre. Maggie was away in the big smoke, Charlotte and Helen J were under the weather and at the last minute Lynn couldn’t make it either. Plans for the day had been made but not everyone could stay for the proposed lunch so plans were very flexible.


We settled down for the obligatory long coffee session along with plenty of chat and catching up with everyone’s news. Other subjects covered at some length were the craziness of current DBS requirements for any one mad enough to want to work and the perils of cycling both for the crazy cyclists and us as extremely considerate drivers who never get irritated by those on two wheels - they should all be subjected to Janice’s training regime! Jo entertained us with Bob’s latest exploits, causing more havoc for her long suffering sister! There was also a competition to see who was wearing the most clothing layers - Julia won!

Our coffee cups empty we headed out into the freezing cold - Julia most definitely won the best scarf award! But Alison two coats also needs a commendation!

At this point I had to leave having double  booked myself but the remaining hardy souls headed out in search of the Great Northern Diver so thank you to Jo for the next bit…,



    These are some of the ones they didn’t get.

The reservoir is 55% full now ro having gone down to 40% during the drought so plenty more rain needed yet.
Jo and Julia had to leave too after the bird spotting session so the flock of tits was reduced to just three who enjoyed lunch in the sunshine