Thursday, 18 May 2023

Mini May

 Mini May Gathering at the Stone Centre 

May 17th 2023


Finally after the hiatus that befell us in April we finally managed a mini get together for lunch at the Stone Centre. So Lynn, Alison, Maggie, Julia and Helen M gathered on a marvellous May Day. 

Pam  was off to sunny Ilfracombe and Jo was in sunny Scotland and Charlotte and Janice were otherwise engaged.

Helen J sent greetings from windy Porto.

Alison arrived directly from her invigilation duties with stories of ear buds and toilet breaks and other such innovations which made us reflect on how lucky we are to have escaped when we did! We all agreed that she definitely deserved her hot chocolate with all the trimmings.

We were all very pleased to hear that Bubbles has escaped from quarantine in the cupboard and had been off skiing  - perhaps she was the only one who was pleased that there was almost too much snow.

We met a pack of delightful whippets and a lovely Irish terrier and said hello to a colleague from the distant past.

The conversation covered many subjects, the joys of cauliflower, the dubious joys of Brussels sprouts, the benefits of having a dog along with the disadvantages and is there any way to guarantee you won’t end up with a poo eater. The horrors of Ofsted were briefly touched upon, something else to remind us how lucky we are! Maggie is working her way through 70 things to do at 70 and Lynn admitted that she has forgotten what is on her bucket list so couldn’t possibly manage 70 things to do. We shared a few good book recommendations and how annoying sobbing in the cinema can be, some of us admitted to still hanging on to dvds and Alison sang the praises of her fire stick which we think might be illegal or just very up to date. We all agreed that growing up in cold houses had made us a tough bunch not phased by broken boilers and misbehaving heating systems and we wondered if the failing postal system means the death of the hand written letter. We all agreed that May is the best month and that we are very lucky in very many ways.

Bird list

There were lots of them singing their hearts out but we were far too busy chatting to spot them. 

Tali had been very good waiting patiently in the car and was very relieved that Lynn finally set her free!





Thursday, 9 March 2023

Discovering Derby

 Discovering Derby

March 8th 2023

On a very chilly day with snow forecast a decision was taken to assemble in Derby and explore some of the industrial heritage of the city from the warmth and comfort of the Silk Mill.


Those of us of a certain age decided to try out our bus passes and brave the bus and it has to be said it worked very well, those not yet of an age to qualify for a bus pass took advantage of the two pound bus fares or a lift from Pam!
Alison, Janice and Lynn weren’t able to join us for various reasons but the rest of us made it
to the Quad for coffee and caught upon everyone’s recent activities including European Grand Tours, living it up in posh hotels in the Caribbean, discovering the home of the two Roberts in Scotland and even a school trip to Germany which provided delicious souvenir chocolates.

Fortified with coffee we headed off to the Silk Mill

Three very splendid specimens 

Lots to see and we have only just made it through the door.


Lots of very impressive machinery, some old and some much newer.

And certain exhibits that required a pound of our hard earned coinage…
……..not sure they were all such good value for money!



And plenty of signs to ensure that everyone behaves in an appropriate manner 

Jo and Helen found a friend but couldn’t get through the locked door to the best bit of the whole museum that only Pam and Maggie managed to see.


And on International Women’s Day it seemed very appropriate that we discovered these two.

Despite the best efforts of some members of the group we weren’t able to gatecrash the buffet laid out for the visiting school trip but we did enjoy some very good soup and delicious cheesy herby bread……

…… with this hanging over our heads!

Realising it was almost 2 o’clock and almost time for the trainee jumped in the lift and headed up stairs to catch it…….

…..typically it was running slightly late but once the lady in charge had worked out which buttons to press  it set off on its journey.


With that as a grand finale we all headed off home clutching our bus passes and our two pounds and all intending to return to make some more fascinating discoveries.





Thursday, 9 February 2023

Carsington and Hopton




A-walking and a-snowdropping

8th February 2023

As we get older, we feel more rebellious.  Agreeing to meet at the Sheepwash car park, doesn't mean that we actually need to park there. But we found each other and only one of us paid for the privilege. As it was a little bit chilly with the sun not yet pushing through enough, we decided on a brisk walk. So brisk in fact, that having stopped to take a photo, it was quite hard to catch up.



Wait for me!

On our way Pam saw a stranger wearing her exact same hat which she had lost on Monday.  But, despite real encouragement from Maggie to 'go get her', Pam hoped it was just a bit of coincidence, and let things be. Why does she need another hat anyway?

We arrived at the bird hut with lots of information and Pam showed off her birding identification skills, carefully matching the beak to the bird.

M'lady sorting out ma'lard

But the real test was through the window, which was slightly steamed up, and the view not helped by steamed up glasses and likewise steamed up binoculars; even outside was still a bit misty across the water.

I don't know what I am until Pam finds me beak!

Pam finds a map and tries to plot a walking route back to Wirksworth avoiding the very busy road. 

But private property blocks a logical right of way. 

Are we ready for the right to ramble anywhere?  (see book recommendation below). We look the part; have a good amount of dried mud on our boots.... or do we? Someone's boots look a bit squeaky clean but they were definitely worth buying in the half price sale. 

How far up the ankle should the cuff be?  Below or above the ankle? 

We speed back along the path, chatting away and paused to check out the birds. Whilst waiting for anything to turn up, we listen to Alison's lovely stories: the buzzard which 'played dead' on the road,  placed in a box for safety and then 'woke up'climbed out of the box and sat in the passenger seat of a car en route to the vets; and the one about the dead mole (which wasn't feigning anything) which demolished Alison's snowdrops in her one patch of loose soil in her garden.


Observed, but not photo'd, flock of tits and rampaging fat, grey squirrels. 

We chatted about state pensions.  Alison waiting for Helen, waiting for Alison, to see what to make of the new form and whether we can apply for both the New and the Old state pension (whichever pays out best, Alison).  And, yes, we are ready to apply for our bus pass and can't wait to be called a 'bus w%#nker'!

We briefly say tata to Pam and head off down the winding lanes to our next destination admiring the rectory and its statue, other vast houses without statues, sheep, hedgerows and enjoy the laughter of children playing in the school playground (that's cos we're not in charge; hehe) 

It is what it says on the sign.

Not much traffic; no pot holes!

Free to view and just as pretty as the Hopton ones. 

We purchase our admission tickets to Hopton Hall, to discover that the KitKat bars on the table were not included. But they did tell us that Pam was round the bend; our lips are sealed.  We found her basking in the sun in front of some posh cars.

Ready for soup, which was not on the menu, we all opted for a coffee and scone and settled down to our usual chat about holidays (plenty of snow for skiing, boozy cruisers rum punched-out on idyllic Caribbean beaches, adventure holidays vs relaxing ones).  Breaking the rules of watching  TV during the day being essential when binge-watching cracking good shows. . Holidays to be taken on TV locations. Happy Valley vs Line of Duty? (Alison looks bemused). Firesticks , not the BBQ ones (the rest of us are bemused). How we are quite content with our characterful wrinkly faces. 


See what I mean? 

View from our table.

We tootle off: Pam with her recorder and the rest of us around the grounds. 

In full glory

Snowdrops aren't the only flower

A waterfall of funghi

Pretty in pink hellebore

We must visit this in summer

The Thistleheads

Women of stature

Fallen angel wing


Of course, we didn't forget our lovely friends scattered mostly around the UK or on a grand tour of Europe on family or holiday business .  Proof

Cotswolding with Betty

Megalithing with Jo's family

Bob's just rocking-it!

Today's recommended book list.

The Book of Trespass by Nick Hayes (Pam)
(might need reading in conjunction with an easy reader)

A Terrible Kindness by Jo Browning Wroe (Pam)
(emotional)

Overstory by Richard Powers (Helen)
(allow plenty of time for this fascinating, beautifully written book about nine folk and trees)

Small Things Like These by Claire Keegan (Maggie and Helen)
(Elegant writing  about a coal delivery man and some nuns! Very short; we think everyone will like this) )


Today's bird list: 
Blackbird
Blue tit
Bullfinch
Canada geese
Chaffinch
Coot
Crow
Dunnock
Fieldfare
Gadwall
Great tit
Greylag goose
Jackdaw
Long tailed tit
Mallard
Moorhen
Robin
Teal
Wigeon
Wood pigeon
Wren
(21 at full speed walking, a tiny pause and misty views, not bad)




Thursday, 12 January 2023

Wintering in Whitworth Park

 

Wintering in Whitworth Park

12th January 2023

"Nature is simply pulling you to slow, like the life, flora and fauna around you.  It is not your moment to rise.  It is winter, you are wintering.  And you are right on time".

Extract from Donna Ashworth's Poems & Quotes 10th January 2023

Having seen the above trending on social media, we decided that it was a perfect quote for our intentions for the day.  First stop, the Whitworth Terrace Cafe, with a lovely table set aside by Lynn and car parking fees taken care of by a tablet.  

The first topic of conversation was, who won the 'Wild Guesses Flock of Tits Favourite Tipsy Tipple Gelly Babes Christmas Quiz of 2022'.? And, as not many had read the xmas blog or even seen the answers, despite a prompt on WhatsApp (distracted by Alison's photos), much time was spent discussing other babes' strange concoctions.  There were not enough wooden spoons to be handed to those who remembered their own choice and then boosted their score with guessing one other, but, we had a very worthy winner:

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Look, the garden twine matches Helen's jumper (and Lynn's!)

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And delighted runner up, shared with Maggie who was otherwise engaged.... 

....as were Janice, Charlotte and a couple of skiers. Coffee was punctuated with a catch up based on some of our favourite topics: growing old and avoiding carers (thank goodness for daughters); how 60 plus is not old enough for a gold (discount) card in Derby city, but being over 60 is for Derbyshire (humph from me, paying more for my coffee); how not having a maths 'O' level would now prevent some from being called back into teaching; the wonders of Latin and future holidays: the Cotsworlds, the Caribbean and a grand tour of Europe beckoning before February ends.  

Needing a spot of fresh air, we braced ourselves for a short, non-muddy walk.  Lynn pointed out all the lovely birds and managed the best ID of a mistle thrush by song. Thank goodness for that, as we were thwarted by a bit of bird ID technology. 


Darlings, I have a very good ear for sounds, don't you know! 

We carried on developing our January bird list and came up with a fine set of birds, a squirrel and the largest rat anyone has ever seen!  At some point we bid Julia addio; adieu; vale; despedida (thank goodness for google translate) and continued, now in a drizzly, damp sort of way...

There's a male heron in there somewhere!

Hurrying back to the cafe for a spot of lunch, we paused for a selfie with a view.  How long did it take to get the building et al all in?  Ha! And right at our feet, our first snow drops.


A bunch of hoodies!

Returning to our very own table, complete with fresh alstroemeria in the vases, we all opted for jumbo fish fingers sandwiches on brown with a bit of sauce.  Perfect for wintry weather. I can't really remember what we talked about , but there was mention of a malfunction with 'memory integrity'. Apparently its important to have it to make a computer safe, but we also thought it  important for our own brains.  We admired a baby in a pram, but we annoyed its mother, so stuck to family baby photos and a seven year old bulldog.  Plans for February and March were discussed. 

The cafe then seemed to fill with men in lycra, which we took as our cue to leave. But not before another quote of the day:
  
Helen M: Where has this wind come from?  
Helen J:  Over there! 

It was a bit blustery but we managed a few more 'adieus' and a group hug


Whilst we had a lovely day, we couldn't help but think that Alison and Pam were being a bit energetic in their idea of 'wintering'! 

Pam, running up that hill!

Beautiful, Alison!

And here is our January bird list for the day

Long tailed
Blue tit
Great tit
Robin
Blackbird
Goldcrest
Nuthatch
Mistle thrush
Chaffinch
Mallard
Coot
Moorhen
Wood pigeon
Grey heron
House sparrow
Crow
Magpie
Jackdaw 

18, not bad for a local park in the drizzle